Vannie
Honesty and the lack of drama is a requirement.
OpenOne to one party.
In this city of however many million there should be a like minded female thinking this sounds pretty okay.
I am scared for the woman who you apparently screwed over (in addition to her family). I am pretty open minded and willing to try just about anything (one of my favorite things is performing oral and general foreplay). Safe, respectful, discreet.