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By Korey Lane November 30, In today's dating climate, it's easy to feel like no one wants to be in an exclusive relationship. It's also totally normal to feel intimidated by the idea of broaching the subject with someone you like, especially if you currently find yourself in a friends with benefits situation and you want to turn it into something more serious.

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These six ladies got themselves exactly the kind of relationships they wanted, and you can too. Remember: You should be in the kind of relationship that you want to be in. If that means you're totally content in your FWB situation and you love having no strings attached, then you do you, girlfriend! No matter what your ideal relationship looks like, everyone is different, and everyone deserves exactly the kind of love they want.

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Read on for stories from women who got just that. You never know unless you try. Giphy We started "hooking up" at a time when it just didn't make sense for us to pursue anything serious. We were both going to be moving to new places in a few months, so we agreed to keep it casual and, ideally, free of feelings. A few months go by, we say goodbye to each other thinking we'll probably never see each other again, and we move to our new homes.

But by then, even if we tried to ignore or deny it, we had definitely developed feelings for each other.

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So we kept talking - like pretty much every day. After about 6 months of this - during which we were not exclusive - I got to a point witn I came to terms with the fact that I was definitely emotionally invested in him and I was pretty positive he felt the same friedw me. I decided we either needed to start taking our relationship more seriously, or we needed to stop talking entirely so I could move on.

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First, I said we should visit each other to see where that goes, and he agreed. He came to me, and then I went to him, and at the end of that second visit, I gave him that ultimatum — either beneflts really give our relationship a try and start dating long distance, or we needed to stop entirely so we could move on.

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And I think he really felt the same way, so that turned into a productive conversation ofr ended with us deciding to date long distance. We realized that we'd rather try and fail than not try at all.

Now, our three-year anniversary is coming up in January. I continued to see other people, though he was only hooking up with me.

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We actually went from FWB to exclusive over a conversation about contraception, where he brought up relying on my IUD and no longer using condoms. Safe sex is important to me, Loking doing this meant we'd need to be exclusive.

During the convo, I realized I only wanted to be dating him, so we decided bensfits make things official! I brought the guy I was kind of seeing; my now-boyfriend was invited by another girl in my sorority.

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We drunkenly made out, but went home with our respective dates. As it turns out, the following semester, I became close with the girl who brought him to the date function she later became my roommate and is now one of my best friends. I then became part of her friend group, and thus started seeing him more often. After nights hanging out with that friend group, the two of us would continue "hanging out" alone.

We never labeled it "friends with benefits," but then again, we never labeled it anything at all!

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We were both having fun just living it up in college and partying with our friends. I don't think either of us were looking for a relationship — especially not with each other, considering how we first became acquainted. We just knew that we had fun together. For us, it was so gradual and so natural, I can't say when our mindset shifted, or who initiated the shift.

I think I realized I liked him as an actual person and not just a guy to hit up when I was bored pretty early on, but I didn't know whether I should voice those feelings — or if I even wanted to; I was having fun being a single gal with my single gal pals! But it wasn't long until I was not just sleeping over his place, but hanging around the following day.

A few months in, though, when he asked to take me out to dinner and held my hand as we walked around in public, I think we both realized we had somehow become more than what we thought we were. Not long after that, he told me he loved me, and that is the day we now celebrate as our "dating" anniversary. We were instantly best friends in our program and spent almost every single day together studying or reading.

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If you want to try it out, though, it's crucial to know the one rule for successfully navigating a FWB relationship : always set boundaries and openly communicate — otherwise things are bound to get messy. Having friends with benefits is bound to become problematic as a result of uncertainty!

Being in a FWB relationship always has the potential to turn into a sticky situation, leaving one person with their feelings hurt. Unfortunately, no matter how well you communicate, there's always a chance you could outgrow your FWB situation. Here are eight s that your FWB situation isn't actually working out for you anymore — which means it's time to redefine the relationship If you find yourself no longer sexually satisfied by your FWB, it's OK to "break up" in pursuit of a new partner whether it's a serious relationship or another casual fling.

But if you're in a non-exclusive FWB arrangement and find yourself feeling jealous of your partner's other hookupsthat's a clear that trieds should end things.

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